So if you were thinking about getting a turtle as a pet, and you wish to know some of the traits of the turtle, if I were to say, oh, turtles aspire to be a wonderful turtle. He values the time that you and him spend together. He’s a giving turtle. He’s a turtle amongst turtles, right? That’s ridiculous.

Here are the actual the traits of a turtle. Generally solitary, though they communicate subtly, they’re slow on land. Agile in water. Their diet varies by species. It could be a herbivore, carnivore, omnivore. They’re known for long lifespans, some exceeding a century. So if you’re actually serious about getting a turtle, the trait that I I listed second will help you prepare yourself mentally and logistically for getting a turtle and keeping it happy and healthy.

Social media influencer’s, personal opinions aside, if you want a high value man or a high value rich man as a boyfriend or husband, you want to know his actual traits. So here in no particular order. Our 10 common high value man traits. Number one, high value men have ambition or initiative. Now, this is at the heart of what brought him into being a high value man in the first place.

And I’m gonna delve too much into that in this video, in another video I will, and it’s certainly something to prepare yourself, for because it’s unique being around someone who’s really driven. Like that. Number two, he’s disciplined. There is structure to his life and order. He lives by this. Don’t be surprised if he trains in martial arts is religious and has a regimented schedule.

Number three, he practices self-care and self-love. They tend to be health conscious to some extent because they don’t wish to have built up everything only to die in their fifties or sixties, and that happens. They want to live a long time. That includes having people around them who are responsible for their health, number one being their wife.

Here’s where your ability to plan out healthy meals for the family and cook them, weigh in heavily. Also, the next will be their doctor. You also need life or success coaches, personal trainers, that kind of thing. Number four, high value. Men tend to be generous when it’s time to give gifts. It’s the fun part, right?

It doesn’t have to be a birthday or holiday or anything. Especially if you’re treating him right and keeping him happy, they’ll typically want to shower you with a variety of gifts for no reason. These gifts will come the form of jewelry, day trips, spa days, shopping, sprees, gift certificate at some of your favorite stores, etcetera.

And I’ll share a personal story with this one. I had a girl friend at the time when I was. Building up my first advertising company. I went on to actually sell that. It, I was still building it up and we were very much in love, things were going great. I’d even moved from one state.

That I was living into the state she lived in to be closer to her. And so I had to commute longer back and forth to, to where I worked at for my company. Yeah, I was fine. I was happy. We were a very cool couple. And I remember one day, I think I just signed up a new client or something and I don’t know, I just felt like going out and doing something special for her.

And so I knew she didn’t have like a lot of jewelry and so I went in, to a business that sold women’s jewelry and I selected a pair of pearl earrings. They were very elegant and, just bought her a pair of pearl earrings, which are, a staple that you definitely want to have in, amongst your jewelry because they go great with different gowns and such.

So I bought her a pair of earrings for no reason, right. I went and gave it to her and she was so surprised and she loved them and, really, , thanked me for them ’cause she hadn’t never received a gift like that before. And I had never given a gift like that before, yet I didn’t even know why I did it.

But I can tell you that this felt good in the relationship. I knew that she loved me and I loved her, and I wish to do something special for her. And it’s just as simple as that. And that’s the thing to understand when you’re dealing with, any type of man really, especially for high value. And the gifts are gonna be better, typically better yet, as long as you’re feeling good, that’s what they’re gonna do.

I talk about this with women all the time. I kind of have designs on getting things from high value men and high value rich men. And it’s like, you don’t need to do that. As long as you’re making him happy and treating him right the way he wants to be treated in the relationship.

We’re just built to do that. You don’t have to, , kind of going with an agenda, , if you’re treating him right and he’s happy, he’s gonna wanna do stuff for you and shower you gifts anyway. Alright, number five. He hands out tough love for himself and even for you. So many high value men have exacting standards, more so requirements for themselves, and this is what, again, helps them to get to where they are and keep them where they are.

What it also means though, is it’s going to extend to you because he wants the best for you. You know he has your back and he wants to see you flourish. At times it may seem off putting and even kind of mean maybe some of the things he may say or he kind of pushes you or something, almost like a father figure looking out for his daughter.

Yet this means he actually cares about you and loves you because if he didn’t, he wouldn’t be investing his time in you in the first place. So if you’re saying you’re gonna do something, then you need to do it. Not doing it will fly with an average guy yet. For the men like this, their success is based on doing what they say they’re going to do when they say they’re going to do it, and they’re gonna hold that same standard to you because the people in their inner circle have to reflect their values, especially their girlfriend and wife.

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Okay, let’s get back into it. Number six. Typically they value their freedom. Freedom to live life on their own terms, especially when it comes to their time and how they spend it and who they spend it with. Seven, he tracks his financial situation carefully. He’s aware of his monthly budget. You know What his overhead is, how much he’s saving, how much he’s investing, and his discretionary income.

Plus, he’s aware of how much money he’s spending on dating you Now, it’s important to note at this point that your finances are going to be a part of the discussion. Again, this varies with different high value men. It is something to be prepared for because if the guy you’re with isn’t as big on it, great.

If he is, then you’re prepared for it. Your finances are still gonna be a factor in the budget, even if he’s a high income earner, because the whole thing is, it’s about building, it’s about acquiring more. It’s about growing what you have, so you’re not going to be just essentially living off of him. Even though he will most likely be paying for, , most, the majority of things, right?

You’re gonna be building together. And that’s what you wanna get into your mind is you wanna get into the mindset of building something, not living off of someone, right? Building something together, because that’s what he’s about building. And if you’re being financially irresponsible with your money, that’s a big issue.

It is one thing to, invest your money, to save your money, that kind of thing, and then afterwards to spend it on whatever you like when you’re being financially irresponsible. That can be a big problem. That’s going to be on the table for discussion. I’ll give you a perfect example of this. So there was a time.

I was walking through a shopping center like a plaza, and , I walked past this couple. It was an African American guy and a, Chinese American woman, And he was, a high value man, and at the time, the location I was, it wasn’t common seeing couples like that because the communities were like very, didn’t even live anywhere near each other.

So it kind of caught my eye and I was kind of curious about Asian movement at the time as well, so I, yeah, I. I walked up to him and said, Hey, you mind if I talk you for a moment? And , he said, sure. And she went ahead and did something. And so I’m like, Hey, how’d you meet her? What’s going on?

How’d it come about? , I’m thinking about talking to some Chinese women. And, and he shared his story with me and, and I remember a couple of things that he said. He said, what’s interesting is the values , are completely different. Than a lot of women. And , one of the things he mentioned was this.

He said, listen, I tried to take her out. Remember, we established before that they want to do, if they’re happy, any relationship, they want to, I won’t say spoil you. They want to they want to let you know that they appreciate you and part of it is usually doing stuff that they know that you like and giving you gifts and stuff, right?

So he says, I try to spend money on her, Dillon, I try to take her out to dinner. He says she won’t let me spend money on her. Every time I say, listen, I’m gonna take you out to a nice restaurant tonight.

She says, no, we need to save our money so we can buy a house.I’ll cook every time. She won’t let me take you to restaurant.

She always insists that we, save our money and. Everything. He, she wouldn’t let him spend a dime because she was laser focused on that. We need to save our money so that we can buy a house and we can do that.

And the other, and I was floored when I heard this, ’cause I had never heard anything like this before.

Right. And I was like, seriously? And he was like, yes. And I was like, where can I get one? Right. So to a man, especially a high value man who’s in the midst of building, that’s music to our ears because we know we’re gonna have a a, a woman who. It is not simply on our team yet as a partner. She’s gonna be a, not just a partner, it’s someone we can count on.

Like my baby’s got that taken care of. I’ll go out and earn the money. We have our, our investment advisors and stuff. Yeah. She’s on it. My lady’s on it. That’s, it. That woman becomes a very valuable part of the team. So someone who understands it’s about building and would actually stop him from spending money.

Now you wanna do even more for this woman? For us, this is how we think. It’s like, you know what? We are gonna get that house baby, and when we get the house, you’re gonna get a hell of a house. Any house you want, we’re gonna get. That’s what happens. So just remember that, as you move forward, and don’t think of the money or any resources that he has as a way of you getting it and spending it on stuff.

Just back his play and you’ll be, you’ll get more stuff than you could ever imagine. Little insider information. All right, number eight. He wants you to have direction with your life. Now, whether you have a career, you wanna start a business or come and work in his business if he has one, or stay at home and raise a large family.

He wishes to know what direction you have with your life. You gotta have some direction. I’ve met women, and I’m gonna cover this in other videos. That literally didn’t wish to do anything. And they had listened to a lot of these social media influencers where they just wanted a, a man that would just take care of them and they didn’t wish to have a job.

They didn’t wish to have kids. They just wish to sit at home and have money and be able to go out and shop and everybody want. That’s not wrong yet. That’s very unattractive to the majority of high value men. We don’t wish to usually have a woman like that , and when there’s that type of relationship, it comes with.

Strings attached. And in the another video we’re gonna cover what those strings are and they’re not very good strings either. Alright, number nine. He’s usually very family focused and family oriented. He wants the best for his family. That means, great schools and great healthcare, for the kids, maybe even homeschooling, the children being active in sports, and in the arts.

And they oftentimes want two to three children. It was an old saying before when you have like two kids, it was rich man’s family. It hasn’t changed a lot. There are some that won a lot. Like you in cases of Nick Hannon and, and Elon Musk, some guys want large families. That’s part of the motivation, believe or not, on why they become high value men , or high value rich men because they actually want a large family.

So a family is typically very important with a lot of these guys. It’s also very common for them. To help his wife’s family as well. And I see this a lot, even amongst my friends, oftentimes helping him to get started in businesses of their own or even help them grow their careers. He is good for everyone.

And, I’m saying with even amongst my friends, seeing this around the world, not just in the States. This is just a, characteristic, a trait that’s common in a lot of, high value men, especially high value rich men. And finally, number 10. He wants his mate you to have good mother qualities. He’s also looking at you again.

We just covered that. He’s family oriented, right? So he is also looking at you because he wants to have good standards for his children, and that means especially for his daughters, because whoever you are. Is what his daughter is gonna grow up to become. Sons usually take more after their father.

There are exceptions yet, for the most part, they take after the deaths, yet their daughters most likely is going to become you. So if there’s anything that you need to address in yourself. Emotional scars, emotional hurt, baggage from past relationships, any psychological issues, relationship issues, therapy, counseling, hypnotherapy, all it works.

Make the investment in yourself because that’s something you definitely wish to address, even if it wasn’t with a high value man. ’cause it, it will pass on to your children. It would, there’s a saying in, certain religions, the sins of the father, pass on to the son. It’s the same with the mothers.

In other words, anything, any issues that dad has. The son typically picks up. And usually the daughters too is the queue kids, really not just the son yet, especially sons. It’s the same with moms. So if you have issues in you and you don’t address them, it’s very likely that’s gonna pass on to your daughters.

And not, not only is that a timeless saying, yet it holds true. So because of this. This is one of the reasons I encourage women not to go through a hoe phase again. I have a lot of friends that are women. And we talk, right? And so they tell me, what’s going on? Especially you have, , different relationships they’re going through.

And I always share with them, do not whatever you, whatever your girlfriends are telling you and you, you’re hearing on social media, do not listen to, do not go through a hoe phase one because it’s very challenging to end the hoe phase, phase once you begin. And two, I’ll tag on this most hoe phases, women who want go through hoe phases, I, it’s years, not one year, not six months, it’s years.

I and I, I don’t really know of any that really end the hoe phase unless they get into a relationship that sticks. So they just stay in a hoe phase for a long time. And number two, you typically develop hoe energy. It is like a hoe energy bubble that surrounds you that you’re not even aware of We can, especially guys who are used to talking to women, we can usually pick out the hoe in the group.

So if there’s like a group of like four or five women and then we’re talking to them like, you know, getting laughing and stuff, we could pick out the hoe in the group. ’cause she has that hoe energy bubble around it. Right? And you’ll have that hoe energy bubble and you won’t even be aware of it. And while a lot of guys may wish to have sex with a woman with hoe energy, they certainly don’t wanna make her a wife or the mother of their children.

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