VIDEO TRANSCRIPTION – Dating a high value man reality check what you need to know. There are a lot of coaches out there and social media influencers. Telling you, oh, dating high value, man, here’s how to attract a high value man. What they never address is what it’s actually like to be in a relationship date, or even be married to a high value man.
And so for the women who take their advice and do, oftentimes they find themselves shocked and unprepared as to what the experience is like. Ladies, it is not for the weak. You have to be a certain type of woman to be with a high value man or high value rich man. There’s very little to do with, living this lavish lifestyle, eating at more expensive restaurants and taking great vacations.
This does routinely happen. Yet that also has to do with a lot of things that women don’t anticipate. And if you’re not mentally and psychologically and emotionally ready for it, it can be very shocking and cause you to ultimately end up losing the relationship with a high value man, one that could have been ultimately life-changing for you.
So in this video, I’m gonna share with you what it’s like to date and be in a relationship with a high value man or high value rich man. Let’s talk.
Hi, I’m Dr. Dillon Wilson, The Couples Coach. Since college, I’ve been helping couples with dating, falling in love and relationships. In this video I’m sharing with ladies, if you’re serious about your future tips on how to meet date and marry the high value rich man of your dreams.
Okay. So what’s it like being in a long-term, committed relationship with a high value man or a high value rich man? A lot of ladies imagine a life of luxury and ease. They don’t realize that dating such a man requires a strong woman ready to be held accountable and meet higher standards. It’s not just about attracting him, it’s also about being the kind of woman who can navigate the relationship and the challenges that it brings.
It takes a totally different kind of woman to date a man. Who is loving, successful, ambitious, and oftentimes a perfectionist. It is definitely not for the weak now. Now, all of the four following are common traits amongst all high value men. It is amongst many of it common traits amongst both high value men and high value rich men.
So here’s what women who were married to have dated high value, rich men have said it’s like. Again, I, I know a bunch of them. And full disclosure, this includes the women who dated me in the past as well. So I speak from experience number one. He calls you out for not taking responsibility for your actions, your words, and your life.
It’s important to understand that he’s doing this because he loves you and he cares about you. He’ll even tell you that, if he didn’t care about you, he wouldn’t bother saying anything to you at all. Facts,
trait number two. He holds you accountable for your actions, your words, and your life. Once again, this comes from a place of love and caring for you. He wants the best for you.
I can share a personal story with you about this. I had a girlfriend when I first moved to California, moved there together, and I, I went there to start another company and she was getting her career going in that state, and it takes a while, you know, to get a career, a position in your career.
In the meantime, she wished to get a job just to have money coming in. Until her career got going out there, and so what she did was, one of the jobs she found was a job working for a company, selling some kind of advertising. And they got to wear Verizon shirts, right? It just, it was a, it wasn’t Verizon, it was a company that sold Verizon stuff.
And the one caveat was when you started working, you had to, to at least get your first paycheck for, for training and stuff. You had to finish like the first two weeks. So if you quit, you had a week of training and then you had a week in the field actually working. So if you quit before two weeks, you get paid nothing.
So you have to finish it two weeks to get paid for your week of training and your week in the field. And she’s out there, she’s getting her training. She started working. She actually poked, funded at me saying that, she would go on businesses. She had a cool Verizon shirt.
She said, oh, our, our shirt say Verizon on it. Not like your other advertising company. You just walk in some no name company. You just walk in with a regular shirt on. And when I heard her say this, I mean I was, I was experienced B2B sales, you know, very experienced with that trainer, sales team, everything.
So I just laughed and I said, you know what, sweetheart? Just keep that same enthusiasm when you go out into the field. Because I knew what she was gonna experience. And so when she, when she got out there and she got a snoot full of business owners, the more they even see her walk in the door with their Verizon shirt, they would say, not interested.
I’m not buying anything. No, no. Get outta my, my store, get outta my business. She got a, like a day or two of that. And what do you think she wanted to do? Keep working. She went to quit. Right. And you can’t be a quitter. That’s, that’s a no-no. You know, you gotta finish this up. So she called me from the field out in the field, close to tears, and, because she knew she was going to answer to me based on what she did.
We were a couple, we answered each other, right. And she was like, oh, Dillon, you know, here’s how it is. And they’re all saying out, interested, and blah, blah, blah. So I’m gonna quit. Okay. I’m gonna quit and then I’ll, I’ll keep, you know, searching for another job until, , my career gets going. And I was like, hold on now slow this down.
They said that you don’t get paid un unless you work two weeks and you’re at a, a little over a week in, so what, another three days and you get a full paycheck. She’s like, oh yeah. I said, well, you, you’re gonna finish out the week then. Right? So that way you get paid for your time. You don’t wanna, you’re not in the business of wasting time and wasting your money.
It still costs you money driving back and forth through every day, right? So you’re not trying to take a loss so you can work three more days, finish out the week, and then you get paid for two weeks. And she was like, you, you want me to to finish working to keep working for this company? I’m like, hell yeah.
Why would you, well, you gonna sit at home on your butt all day. You’re not gonna be, uh, sending out resumes eight hours a day at home. Finish out the week and then you can quit and at least you’ll get a paycheck for. And she was shocked by this. Not really yet. You know, she didn’t, that’s not what she wanted to hear.
And of course she called her girlfriend and stuff and told her, you’re like, oh, you know, stealing. Right. And again, it’s ’cause I wish they had the best for her. I wish for her to not become a quitter just because things got rough for her and she didn’t like how it was that she’s just gonna turn away and quit.
That’s not good. Right. And also, the fact that she needed the money. Why would you quit? You get two weeks of pay. You’re three days away from getting, you know, a, a, a full paycheck for two weeks. So these are the kind of things that you know, these men will do. You know, they’re not just gonna co coddle you and hold your hand.
You know, they want the best for you. They’re gonna give you that tough love when you need it. All right. Trait number three. He has higher standards for you than you have for yourself. This is a biggie. So if your man has a lot of drive and ambition, it’s important to understand typically, he’ll wish to foster some of that within you. Who wish to find some ambition or initiative in you and encourage it to grow, even if you don’t feel like it.
In other words, you’re going to feel a loving push from him to get on your shit and start making it happen. Anything with your career, you know, your health or anything else, there’s gonna be someone that you realize that you’re, you’re accountable to. You talk about you want an accountability coach and account an accountability partner, you’re gonna get that in him.
Right. You’re not gonna be able to bullshit your way, through someone or pass someone who’s right there with you and knows what you want outta life and knows what things you, you said are important to you. Now, the reason for this is simple. You are part of his inner circle. I dunno if that’s quite a circle, maybe a octagon or something that, that’s a circle.
You’re part of that inner circle, and it’s a well-established fact that the five closest people to you typically reflect your values and also reflective of your income. Now, while your income may not be reflective of his, your values darn well better be you’re one of the most important people in his inner circle, and he cannot afford to have lazy slackers around him because that will rub off on him and affect him.
Just like having people around him who are high speed on the ball or rub off on him and affect him as well. I wanna share another story with you. This is, again, another high value rich man, and this one owns a successful multimillion dollar accounting firm, built it up himself. I have so much respect for him.
Uh, and if you know anything about accounting firms or financial services. One of the whale referral partners for like, say, financial advisors, uh, even stockbroker, any type of financial advisor are accounting firms or accountants. Because usually if an accountant refers a business owner or client to a financial advisor, the person usually goes with that financial advisor.
So a financial advisor can make a ton of money. From even just one accountant as a referral partner. I mean, you could just sit back and just wait for your phone to ring and they’re just referring people into you and you’re signing these people up, business owners who are all multimillionaires and stuff.
You’re sitting pretty, it’s a pretty sweet deal, and that’s why they’re always on the lookout for this. Well, he understood that. And so he wanted his wife to get her securities license so that she could become a financial advisor. Right. And that way he could refer his clients to her. Right. So if she gets her license, uh, she could just come into his office.
He, he has plenty of office, office space for her and she could just sign people up, you know, she would have it so easy and she would make in the high six figures, right, easy, high six figures. And from, for him, he’s thinking that’s money. That instead of referring out that financial advisors oftentimes don’t, uh, pay referrals, right?
Uh. Instead of him referring these clients out, not really getting anything from it except maybe reciprocating referral periodically, he could keep those, that high six figure income in-house in his family. So that means she has to first get a life and health insurance license.Then she has to study and get a securities license, you know, to do all this stuff.
Now here’s the thing. She is close to retirement and she has been a school teacher all this time. Getting her securities license and doing, becoming a financial advisor is not even something she’s even interested in. So of course it comes down to, what’s she going to do? Bear in mind, she probably worked 10 to 15 hours a week and be making in the high seven figures working in her husband’s business.
10 to 15 hours a week you make in a high, you know, uh, uh, six figures, maybe more. You, we just keeping in a high six figures. So when he is talking to her, he presented to her like this, it comes down to this. Do you want to live this quality of life? You like living this lavish lifestyle. They may live in a, a, you know, multimillion dollar home, yada, yada, yada. You know? Do you like the kind of vacations that we go on?
Do you like living life, not worrying about money, not living paycheck to paycheck, being concerned about our retirement. Do you like not being concerned about our children’s financial future? Even our grandchildren’s financial future is already secured. You know, they’re talking about great-grandchildren aren’t even born yet securing their financial future.
It’s like, do you like living that way? And her answer, of course is yes. And it’s like, well this is part of what you have to do to make that happen. That’s it. So sometimes your six figure man, your high value man, your high value rich man will end up dragging you, kicking and screaming into a much more lucrative career.
But once again, she may have to work 10 hours a week and probably making a high six figures.
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Alright, let’s get back into it. Trait number four. He may be very busy because he is working all the time. Yeah, you may have heard this one before. This means that you may not have a whole lot of time to spend with him throughout the week because he is always working.
The relationship may require you to restructure your schedule so that you’re available when he’s available. So you’re both able to enjoy the time that you do have to spend together. This also means that you can’t complain to him about you two, not spending enough time together because you should know what you’re getting involved with before you start dating him.
He is not gonna change up his business or his job so that he starts losing money. ’cause then you’re gonna start costing him that’s bad, that that’s the fastest way to get to. He hope You don’t wanna be costing him, and this is something that you must embrace and address within yourself before you start dating high value and especially high value rich men.
One of the things I can definitely tell you is that it’s very annoying and it seems someone undermining when you’re dating a woman and she starts complaining really about anything, especially when you’re out there working, trying to make it happen. Uh, yeah. When it comes to something that she knows you can’t easily control.
Like it’s one thing if, if it’s something you could just flick a switch and it, and it’s good. Yeah. When she knows it’s something inherent to you, like, like a busy schedule and she starts complaining about it, that’s going nowhere. Right. And so that you don’t want to, that’s like a big no-no, because that’s the first thing that’ll start making him think that maybe this won’t work out because she knows how I am and she’s trying to change what I do, how I’m, how I have to make money.
Right. It means that you have to go in knowing this and you modify your scheduling things to actually fit in with his. Again, you want to be like this, you want to be that, that, that person that he’s like, you know what? Everything with her just fits when he’s talking to his inner circle of friends. Hey, I’m telling you, bro, when we’re together, everything just fits.
There’s no, no argument. We’re not butting his. She understands me, she understands my schedule, and she, everything just works. That’s where you want to be. Alright moving on. Trait number five. Now, this last one applies to some high value rich men, yet not all. They may prefer to travel a lot on business and be away from the family a lot, again, doesn’t apply at all.
Meaning at his job, he may be the one to volunteer to work weekends or to travel to other states and other countries. If the company needs it, it doesn’t mean. That he’s cheating or anything. It’s just that that’s how some guys are wired, right? In his mind, it’s his way of taking care of you and the family.
You may even hear him say things like, Hey, do you like living this way? The kid’s going to the best schools. You don’t have to work and you can stay at home. You like living this way, right? Well, I have to work this way so that I’m able to pay for all of that. In his mind, that’s what he’s thinking. That’s how he feels.
So it may seem like he’s prioritizing, making money over spending time with his family. That’s not what he’s thinking, nor his mindset. He’s thinking that he’s doing what’s necessary to provide the best quality of life for you and the children. Are you starting to get the idea of why it takes a unique type of woman to be with a high value man and especially a high value rich man?
The thing is, it is not that challenging to learn these skills and be prepared for this type of relationship. You just need to know what to do, have the right training and even some support along the way, and you’re good for the rest of your life. And these are exactly the type of topics I teach you in my master course.
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